That Thing No One Tells You...

Everyone talks about how amazing vacations are. The pictures are magazine worthy on Instagram and videos leaving you green-eyed with envy. 

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There is one thing no one speaks about, post about or likes to acknowledge most of the time. 

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The much needed vacation AFTER the vacation. There it's out there now. 

You're probably reading this like... What?... This is a fast ticket to nowhere.... Wait for it (It's totally worth it). 

Everyone, talks about going on vacation and all the amazing things to do, see and/or eat on vacation. You may spend months planning or large sums of money paying for it. 

Then, the flight happens and you land for seven days, or two weeks. It turns out to be the best days of your life. You live it to the fullest and with no regrets. 

You hike, climb, swim, tan and lets not forget party. Because vacations just aren't vacations if you can't "shake a tail feather" as mom likes to call it. Oh, and of course the alcohol, especially if its a celebratory vacation. There will be shots and lots of them. 

However, all good things come to an end and you get back on a flight, land and life as you know is should resume but then... all that fun and excitement finally hits you. You're tired and let's not forget the jet lag, that is absolutely no one's friend. 

Now, what I have to go back to my reality... that awesome time will fade into memories only to scroll upon and be remind in annual increments on Facebook. 

No one told you about the vacation AFTER the vacation, right? Please, allow me. 

It is vital to allow yourself, your spouse and/or family to re-acclimate into reality. It is not the best idea to land and just go back into your daily routine. You have to allow yourself time to relax, unwind and gradually get back on schedule. 

I like to take an additional day or two to let this happen. I usually plan my vacation so I return on my normal weekends. This ensures me two days to have a 'pull yourself together' moment. I also use this time to cleanse my body from the exotic foods and alcohol. 

Traveling is exciting and super fun. It is also very draining and takes a huge toll on your body. In order to be the best version of yourself you must allow yourself time to relax. Yes, relax after you relax.

In my personal experience, it does not benefit someone to jump back into work or school as your body will eventually crash.  You may even find that you are running out of energy and suddenly feel sleepy and groggy. No one wants that, especially your boss.

Allowing yourself a day or two is good. It provides an opportunity to go through photos (and delete all the incriminating evidence lol), do laundry and get some much needed sleep. Especially, if you have traveled to a different time zone, like a 14 hours flight from Japan. 

Sleep! Sleep! Sleep is your friend and your body will thank you... and your life will too! 

That's it, that is the big thing that no one tells you.

Thanks for stopping by and Traveling with May 

How to Plan the best Vaca... EVER!

So, its almost the amazingly dreadful time of year. You know, the time when your super happy but really sad and nervous. When you want to be flawless but look effortless. It's the infamous "back to school" conundrum. 

You may be just starting college or getting ready to send the children off to school as they begin their journey into adulthood. Wherever you fall on this scale you have time. Time for what you ask, oh just to book the most amazing vacation ever!!! 

While most people are getting ready for back to school, I am getting ready for vacations. That's right I'm in travel planning mode and you can be as well. It's not too hard or overly complicated. In fact most websites or apps make it quite easy to book. 

Here is a quick and carefree guide to booking an amazing vacation. 

1. Pick your travel date/s 
You have to decide if you wan thanksgiving with the parents or Christmas in Cannes. Maybe you want to be close for the holdays so spring break is more ideal. Once you have your dates you can move to step 2. 

2. Pick a location 
In my opinion this is by far the hardest step. There are so many places in the world to explore how can you just pick one? Ummm easy, don't! You can book more than one vacation, or extend your vacation by having multiple destinations (it's not as expensive as the 'cha-ching' sound in your head is implying)

Looking for winter wonders check out this cool link 
Looking for Summer in the winter like me? Heat it up here

3. Book the flight/s
Now, this can be a bit overwhelming but I'll share my personal tricks for success. 


 I use hopper, this phone application is absolutely amazing. I select my dates and location/s and it notifies me when the flights are at their lowest and/or the highest. I fly to Japan round trip for less than $800!!!! Yea, you read that correctly. This application is my travel friend! Well, if apps had the capacity to maintain friendships (shrugs). 

I also LOVE LOVE LOVE JetBlue! They ALWAYS have travel deals on flights. Now, is the perfect time to take advantage. There's one way flights to Aruba from New York for less than $200 p/p! Don't believe me? Check it out below.

These are my two faves but there's more especially if you choose all-inclusive. Speaking of that let's detour..

3a. If you choose all inclusive cause you want tropical/carribean vibes. Here are some great websites to help with that. 

Cheap Carribean- it's the first site I used to book an all-inclusive vacation. They have an abundance of options, pick the country, pick the hotels and you can choose the amenities you want. It's AWESOOMMMEE! (and my personal go to when lookin for a quick getaway) 

Bookit- is also another great website. There are all sorts of great ways to save on this site. There are several ways to refine your search and get that perfect vacation!

4. Pick a hotel/Bed and breakfast or Air BNB: because Europe doesn't offer all-inclusive 

This step is usually the easiest for me. I know what my comforts are and what I like to have when I travel. Therefore, hotels are easier for me but, like most things this comes with time and learning through mistakes. 

Here's some options to help with those mistakes:

cheaphotels.org has super inexpensive deals for local and international destinations. The best part is, its NOT just hotels! Yes, that's right, there are apartments, rooms and homes for rent. So you can really pick what you like and not break the bank. 

TripAdvisor.com- is a great place to start if you are not sure what kind of hotel you are looking for. Once you find the hotel, you can check out other sites to see which one has the best rates for the dates of your choice. 

Often, times it might be best to book directly with the hotel. As they ay have special rates and offers not advertised on third party websites. 

Hey! Guess what? Once you finish those simple steps you've done it! That's right you booked your perfect vacation. 

Now, the only thing left to do is save the date and get ready to lice your best life. 

Let me know what places you use to book your vacations in the comments. 

Thanks for stopping by and Traveling with May

Quebec Check

One of the amazing things about the internet is you can go anywhere. Literally. Anywhere, in the world. No, I don't mean on google maps. I mean via other people, you can see their pictures, videos and read about their experiences. It gives you a sense of travel without leaving the comfort of your couch.

There is this AMAZING blog, thesophisticatedlife, by Nadeen that allows you to truly feel as though you're there with her. The blog is broken up into travel, food, wine and Atlanta. It's quite refreshing and enlightening.

There was a recent post about a trip to Quebec, Canada. It is very informative and includes some beautiful photographs. 

Now, I'll be honest, Quebec or any other part of Canada has never been on my 'places to travel' list. However, after reading this, it definitely is. The blog provides insight on 15 things I probably would've never paid attention to. 

The blog explains the details of Quebec, the city, province and its historic language. Nadeen, the blog owner, truly takes the time to help you understand the history behind the language and how it translates into the language spoken today. 

Then she moves into the food, oh yea! As any traveler would tell you travel and food are definitely brother and sister. I know some people who only travel places based on the food because it's an adventure in and of itself. 

thesophisticatedlife explains the maple syrup and Poutine love affair in Quebec. Poutine is a well known and often imitated dish by many places in Canada and the United States. It's an interesting combination of three ingredients. Wondering what it's like? You can totally check out the blog here to see what she thinks. 

There are also plenty of Irish Pubs in the area due to the Irish history in Quebec. She does go into some detail on the history and how it has been implemented in the culture. 

I appreciate the insight on the pubs because good beer and drinks are definitely key to any vacation. 

This blog entry provides very well rounded insight on Quebec, Canada and all the exciting things to do, big or small. 

Like steps, there are plenty of steps to climb in Quebec. If anyone has climbed the steps of St. Peter's Basillica in Rome you know how much the view at the top is worth the climb. Quebec views do not disappoint. 

I love that this blog is all inclusive it really provides an in-depth look at the culture, food and history of Quebec and makes you feel as though you are there. Nadeen does an amazing job explaining the details. 

This blog is 15 Fun Facts about Quebec, Canada. I don't know about you but I'm ready to book a flight. 

And in case my blog is enough... totally checkout thesophisticatedlife to see for yourself! 

Thanks for stopping by and Traveling with May
  

10 Must Haves... For Any Trip

Okay, the passport is in hand, the flight is booked and the hotel is awaiting your arrival,  great! There's just one problem what are you supposed to pack? 

There's a limit for carry on's and your checked bag has a weight limit as well. Ugh, how frustrating there's all these amazing clothes people need to see and they won't be able to... 

Wait, wait, let's not panic people. 

I'm here to help, let's get those bags packed, shoes and makeup/hair care included. You can do this! I'll help you with this must have list for any vacation. 

Here are my 10 items to pack for any trip,  anywhere, any time of year:

1. Leggings/Sweats: super comfy and versatile. Best part they're easy to clean
2. Tank tops/T-shirsts: can be layered if it's chilly, easily able to wear multiple times 
3. Toiletry bag: keep all your hygiene items in one bag, minis are the best and they fit in the carry on
4. Sneakers/Trainers: super comfy and great for walking and excursions
5. Bathing suit/trunks: because a pool, ocean or lake is never too far away
6. Hoodie/Sweater/Jacket: It can always get cold outside or chilly in an indoor space and it helps if it rains
7. Bookbag: this is important, it holds your ID's, passport (which you should ALWAYS have with you) and items you may need throughout the journey
8. Cocktail attire: you never know who you will meet or what occasion may arise, have that one outfit that can be used dressed up or down
9. Open mind: this may not fit in the suitcase but it is needed for any visit to a new place whether it's domestic or international. An open mind can be the deciding factor between amazing new friendships and the worst vacation ever
10. Socks: yes, socks, you have no idea how many times I've traveled somewhere tropical and only have sandals or Toms only to go on an excursion and need socks. They're small but super important 

** Here's a bonus tip** make sure you have an adapter for any country you travel to. All outlets are not made equal. Your devices will thank you. 

Welp! These are my top 10 items for any trip. Dress them up or down, easy wash and wear. Super simple to carry and most importantly a great way to Travel with May. 

What's your must-have item when you vaca? Let me know in the comments. 

May's Favorite Places

As a frequent traveler, I'm often asked where is my favorite place to visit or favorite destination so far. Its always hard to answer this question, because each place offers different experiences and holds special meanings. 

So, because I can't just pick one I'll share the top... five. I'll make a list and explain why. 

• Atlanta, Georgia
• Cancun, Mexico
• Rome, Italy
• Kyoto, Japan
• Valencia, Spain 

Atlanta, Georgia— no passport needed, but this is my home away from home. I've learned to appreciate the time I've spent here. I've built some really amazing bonds with some beautiful people. The food is well seasoned, filled with comfort and made with love. I love the city of Atlanta, it gives me the NYC vibes splashed with some southern hospitality. 

First time I tried fried pickles

Cancun, Mexico— this is was my first trip out of the United States. It was filled with laughs, parties and lots and lots of alcohol. We dedicated each day to a type of alcohol and could only drink that... lol... oh, to be young again! It brings back plenty of beautiful memories and definitely increased the bond with some friends. Cancun bit me with the traveling bug and I've been getting stamps ever since. 

Rome, Italy— this city is filled with historic buildings, amazing views and even better food! Rome gave me the courage to wander in places unknown. I was very well oriented and had the courage to figure out the buses, trains and go where I wanted to go, just me and my phone. After the morning orientations and tourist attractions I was able to feel confident in the evenings to venture on my own not knowing where I was going but just exploring. 

Steps inside St. Peter's Basilica- Vatican I climbed the 871 steps!

Views are totally worth every step

Kyoto, Japan— this, by far was the most intense cultural experience. The Japanese culture is centered around its beliefs and faith. This was evident as I experienced a traditional New Years in a temple. Kyoto, has one of the largest temples in Japan. It's a 30 to 40 minute walk up a constant incline, its a narrow street filled with shops and steps. But the Temple and the feeling of peace and sacredness is totally worth the journey. Kyoto allowed me to fully submerge myself in a culture and truly understand the Japanese in their most pure form. 

Steps leading to Ramen Stadium in Kyoto

Valencia, Spain— SPAIN! Like its SPAIN! I AM IN LOVE WITH SPAIN! As I write this, it becomes apparent Spain may be my personal favorite. However, I still have so much to explore and experience before I can say that in confidence. I want to fully inundate myself in Spain and become an honorary Spaniard. I went to Valencia, which is known as the City of Arts and Sciences. It's a vibrant city, filled with portraits, and sculptures throughout the streets and plazas. The food is amazing and the people are warm. I ate so much paella and it was still not enough.  I had a great experience traveling around and seeing what a happy city it is and how art is consistently woven into the culture. 

City of Arts and Sciences- Aquarium and Science Museum 

So, these are my top five travel spots and why. What's your favorite travel destination? 

Thanks for stopping by and Traveling with May

Mexican Secrets... Tell Every One!

I recently went to Mexico, again, with my mom. This was part of her Mother's Day gift and an opportunity to bond, get out of the city but mostly, just relax.

I've been to Mexico quite a few times, usually it's for a celebration or event. I never go to unwind, there's always so much to do and see. However, I decided this time, I'm going to just relax, literally, do nothing. Best. Decision. Ever.

In doing this, I was able to fully explore what the hotel had to offer. I was able to see if they meet the expectations set on the website and travel sites. 

I stayed at the Secrets Playa Mujeres Golf & Spa Resort in Cancun, Mexico. I know, when you think of Cancun, relax does not come to mind, but it was actually very peaceful. Let me explain why...

The Hotel
The resort is located at the end of the island, literally, and it's so quiet. There is about a 15 minute drive to the resort once you enter the grounds. Which screams privacy and I loved it!

The check-in process is standard and includes a glass of champagne for all guest and cool hand towels. 

The room included a private pool, also known as a swim-out, with central air that can be controlled by the occupants. The TV offered a wide variety of shows, in English, Spanish and Italian. I personally kept it on the music station, because hotel rooms are made for dancing! 

The bathroom was gorgeous, there was a jacuzzi tub, walk in shower, dual sinks with lighted mirrors and a basket of toiletries (replenished daily). 


The Food
Of course, one of the benefits of vacation is eating, everything! I totally did that and then some. There were seven restaurants on the resort offering everything from Sushi to Indian food. 

I ate at each restaurant during our stay, whether for lunch or dinner or two dinners. The food was soooo delicious! During the afternoon there is a pop-up restaurant of sorts by the pool. They offer paella, grilled seafood, chicken, steak, plenty of salads, veggies and cucumber lime water. The water was so refreshing.

I loved watching them cook the food in front of me and taking in the aroma of seasonings, it was heaven for my tastebuds. 

The best part about the food is... there's more! Yes, that's right. The resort offers access to the hotel next door for meals as well. And they were just as tasty and accommodating. 

The Fun Stuff
Now, for the section we've all been waiting for... the fun stuff.

The resort offers plenty of activities throughout the day, if you can leave the beautiful beach or the cool pool. There are water aerobics, salsa classes, painting sessions, traditional Mayan ceremonies, and of course water sports. The jet skis were in full throttle throughout the vacation.

There is a beautiful spa that can be accessed daily. There is an offer for packages at check in and an opportunity to utilize the coupons for the resort for various services. We had massages, and yes it was the best part of my day. (This service is additional to the booking price.)

Oh, there is a movie theater on the resort and they offer nightly shows filled with live music, fire shows and other performing acts.

The hotel truly offers something for everyone and the best part is you can access the resort next door as well for even more things to do. 

The resort next door offers amazing activities, including a water park, and two lazy rivers. There are two water slides that are quite high, but just enough to get the rush you need before splashing into the water. 

Wrap Up
The staff is super friendly and very accommodating. There was nothing I needed but whatever I wanted it was by my side in less than five minutes. They allow you to feel as though you are being waited on hand and foot and it is much appreciated, especially, when that is the goal. 

It's truly a good time... and did I mention it was All-Inclusive! 

If anyone is seeking a great way to unwind in Cancun, Secrets Playa Mujeres Golf & Spa Resort is definitely the way to go. 

Mommy Views 

I hope you check it out for yourself and Travel with May as you do! 

All Inclusive... Is It Worth It?

So, you’ve decided you’re taking a vacation. You want sun, sand, and drinks in your hand. As you begin to research, you see these astronomical prices for just three nights. Ummm no way!

As you keep scrolling there are some more reasonable prices but they are labeled “All-Inclusive” and of course, here comes skepticism, with ‘that can’t be true.’ Guess what? It is! 

When researching for travel, there will be a constant option for All-Inclusive and, of course, you want to know if it’s worth it. Well, let’s discuss.

All-Inclusive can mean two things:

1-flight, hotel, food, and transportation to and from the airport

2-hotel, food, drinks and activities. 

So, it really depends on what you are looking for when traveling, in addition to the location, and time of year. 

I believe All-Inclusive is a great way to save money while ensuring you will get the most bang for your buck! It’s an opportunity to explore things you my not be able to without the All-Inclusive package like dance lessons, art classes or even free massages! Yes, you read that right, free massages!

When I travel, specifically to tropical locations, I prefer All-Inclusive. Its better for me to know I am receiving all of the food, drinks (top shelf of course), and amenities that I would like, prior to arrival. It also allows the flexibility of activities like, water skiing, parasailing, nature excursions and other cultural activities. There is no rush to participate in any specific activity as they are usually offered daily, unless weather conditions don’t permit. Did I mention the room service… can you say cherry on top! 

It’s also better, if it is a family vacation. Some hotels have water parks, baby sitting and daily activities to keep children occupied at the set price with no surprises. 

Think about, if you purchase a round trip flight for $650, book a hotel for $550, pay $95 for transportation to and from the airport. That’s $1200 so far and what about the children? You still need to eat and will have to purchase breakfast, lunch and diner AND of course you want to do the fun stuff, like swimming with dolphins or horseback riding on the beach. You have easily racked up over $2000 for 4 nights and 5 days. No, thank you! 

I will happily take the All-Inclusive rate of $1600 (not including the price for children) for the same service with everything included and, I always have the option to upgrade should I feel the need to. I can enjoy my vacation and relax without worrying about over spending or questioning if I’m really getting the best deal at the restaurant or activity. 

Perhaps, I believe the absolute best part about the All-Inclusive option is the trip insurance. It is peace of mind if there are any unexpected situations that may cause you to delay or even cancel the trip. It may be an additional fee but, trust me, it’s worth it. Besides, if it is used you can always book another vacation with the credits. That’s a definite WIN! 

I love to travel and I love to get the most for my money and this is amazing way to do both. It ensures a good time with a guarantee of your needs, wants and desires being met. 

Overall, in my opinion All-Inclusive packages are a great way to get quality service for a quality price. Any tropical destination is worth All-Inclusive. The best part is there are plenty of websites that do the hard work for you, they compare and allow you to choose what amenities and services you are looking for and then… BOOM… here is your vacation, on the screen and waiting to be booked. 

I hope this helped. Now, go, book that trip! So you can begin Traveling with May!