My Journey to Traveling with May

That moment when you realize your brain is smoking because you have to get all the information out of it... yea that's me right now. 

I am going to attempt to do so without making you feel like you're on the upside, inside, outside, all sides ride in Willy Wonka's Factory. 

Let's Do This... 

Travel has changed my life. It has allowed me to meet so many amazing people and have some of the most informative and stimulating conversations. I have truly been able to see, live and thrive in cultures many people only dream of. 

This was a gradual process. I always knew I wanted to travel someday but I never put a time frame on it. Life had me occupied for a very long time. I was living what I thought was my best life. I then became the "responsible adult" I was supposed to be. 

I still viewed travel as a "one day I will" thing and not an "it's now or never". This definitely changed as I began to maintain being the "responsible adult". In being responsible I had to change my leisure activities, focus on school and building a career. I also learned I never wanted to live life with any regrets. I never wanted to be that seventy-something saying "I should have done...". 

As I fully embraced living with no regrets I began to interact with like-minded people. You know, other responsible adults who were focused on goals, careers and the future. They were from different walks of life with very different goals but all had one thing in common... they traveled. 

It was as if it was a sign to go for it. Well, my mom received her passport first and I must say I was green-eyed with envy. So, I applied for mine as well. Now, I will be honest and say it was not a fast decision as I would often spend my money for a passport on happy hours, night outs with the girls, or just food in general. I was a work in progress. 

Eventually, I decided I'm going to do this... and... I DID. 

One day while on break from work, I walked to the post office with my paperwork and an old passport photo from Jr. High School (thank baby Jesus I still looked exactly the same) and I stood on line and completed the process. 

I was nervous because the clerk told me my photo was too big for the box and they may reject it. I also had no idea they kept the birth certificate. Since I was being responsible I made a copy thinking they only wanted to see the original, but no. I kept the copy. The clerk informed me it will be returned with the passport. I felt a little better but still anxious. 

Weeks passed and I forgot about submitting the application. I come home to an envelope from the government and I'm so confused. I opened it and sighed with relief as my passport and birth certificate were inside.

Within one month I booked my first trip out of the country. It was my friends' birthday and she wanted to go away. I was ready to do this. I was introduced to Cheap Caribbean and I have been loyal to them ever since. 

She decided on Mexico, and like most Americans, I had the stereotypical view about the water and the crime. However, I was quickly informed it's safe and they have bottled water. 

I was so excited, I was also in great shape and ready to show it off. Mexico was so much fun. Every day was filled with laughs, alcohol and some great food. I also learned how much of a thrill-seeker I could be and it only increased with each trip. 

Mexico is cool. I've been there quite a few times now and it never disappoints me. 

I was proud of myself. I stepped outside of my version of normal and tried new things. 

I went to the Dominican Republic, not too long after this and I stayed at what is my favorite resort hands down (stay tuned for that post). The Dominican Republic was different for me and filled with thrill-seeking adventures. Take a look:

Inside the hotel room... yes please! 

Good food

Fried Ice Cream

Some Entertainment 

Jumped down there

See 

Climbing Out

I continued to be a "responsible adult" I was focused on school. Like really focused, almost obsessed with it. I then decided on my major and realized I want to see more than Mexico and DR, I wanted to see the world. I was offered an amazing opportunity to visit Italy. I would give up the majority of my spring break but I was going to Europe! 

I had no idea what to expect and that was the best part for me. I didn't allow myself to get stuck in a specific mindset about anything. 

I landed in Rome and I made the best of it. On that trip I learned some very important things:

I can never be afraid to explore on my own. 
I cannot allow other people to influence the outcome of my vacation.
I want to do this forever.

With this new found perspective I was convinced I needed to do all I can to be great. There were no limits on what I could do and how far I could go. 

Rome was truly a crossroads for me in terms of travel. I could have easily decided to just stay in the room and not explore more than what was required. I could have just stayed with the group the entire time and done only that. 

I wanted more. I wanted to see the real Rome, beyond the tourist spots and shopping areas. I wanted to explore life with the locals and I did just that! I was able to put my reservations to the side and go for it. It changed me, for the better and only solidified my desire to travel the world and get paid to do so. 

I learned the importance of currency exchange. It was a very fast lesson and easily implemented. 

TIP: When you are able to, use your bank or credit cards. Especially if you have a card that does not charge for an out of country purchase. Capital One is a great card for traveling. 

I would use my card, save my cash and make the payments on the card while I was there. So, it made spending money better because I would only use what I put on the card. When I returned I did NOT  have this astronomical amount of money owed. 

Rome ended all too soon and I was back to reality. I had over 1200 photos and I had to sort them. I got to relive my vacation. 

Side Note: Taking photos are super important. Sometimes you forget certain places or what the resort offered and how the food looked. Photos can allow you to remember those things. They also provide an opportunity to have those moments of nostalgia again. 

Rome really allowed me to desire more than a Caribbean vacation and truly explore countries, cities and towns like a native. It was my introduction into being okay with wandering and getting lost. 

I went back to being responsible and focusing on school. I started looking up vacations and figuring out how soon I could go to the next one. Well, I didn't wait too long I took my mom on a much needed and well-deserved vacation. It was perfect. We explored a little (she is not the thrill-seeking type) and relaxed a lot. It was also her first time out of the country and I was super excited to see her reaction to it all. 

As I kept traveling my desire only increased, so much so that I would return from vacation and within one week I was planning the next one. 

I learned some savvy tricks about shopping for flights and all-inclusive hotels. It was so exciting to gain all this knowledge that would allow me to get more for my money. I took five vacations in one year as a result. This was it, I was hooked and my passion was realized! 

I began to share my journeys via social media, I began to receive questions. A lot of questions. There were so many people who wanted to balance work, family and fun just like I did. It was a joy sharing my ups and downs and lessons learned. 

I decided I needed to share it with the world. I was sure there were so many people with the same questions, concerns and hesitation. I knew major blogs only shared some information and would ensure you pay or sign up to get more in depth content. I didn't want to do that. I also was scared to see/read the feedback on my blog. The Internet is not always nice but in posting on this blog and conversing with people about my blog I have gained a lot of confidence. 

I can only hope this blog helps you in your journey to see the world one destination at a time. 

Ok, those were my thoughts. I hope they helped you understand how I became a travel junkie and it inspires you to be responsible and go after your own passion. 

Until next time, 
Thanks for stopping by and Traveling with May 

Run That Back

So back in the day, like a month ago, I posted this amazing blog about Passports. The post included what was needed for a passport and how to apply.

As discussed in the post there are different steps to complete in the application process for a passport. There are also different types of passports but the most common is a general passport (for people like you and me just trying see the world).

Applying for a passport can easily feel overwhelming but its really easy and simple. Are you thinking it's too good to be true? Well, it's not! Check out my throwback post on passports in Passport... How Do I  Get It?

But, wait, what if you already have the passport and it's time to renew? What if you booked your trip but your passport will expire prior to the trip? No worries... I can help with that too!

Simply go to travel.state.gov. When you get there click on the "U.S. Passport" tab on the far left. It'll take you to a new page with plenty of options on the left side. 
Select the "Renew my Passport" tab. When you do so you will see this: 

Renew my Passport by Mail

You can renew by mail using Form DS-82 if your most recent passport meets all five of these requirements:

1. Is submitted with your application
2. Is undamaged (other than normal "wear and tear")
3. Was issued when you were age 16 or older
4. Was issued within the last 15 years
5. Was issued in your current name (or you can document your name change with an original or certified copy of your marriage certificate, divorce decree, or court order)

If any of the above statements do not apply to you, you must Apply in Person using form DS-11.
Please note: If you are not in the United States, please see Applying for a U.S. Passport from Outside the United States.

It looks simple enough, right?  Oh, guess what? The documents are easily downloaded on the computer and you can fill them out online or manually. 

If you are like me... not just the totally awesome part but, the 'I'm totally keeping my passport' part then, guess what?? We can't do it by mail (😩😔). 

I don't know about you but, I've worked hard for my stamps and I would love to keep those pages in that little blue book. 

Stress not, my online travel squad. We've done this before its super easy and remember I already explained what to do in the throwback Passport... How Do I  Get It?

Coolbeans. 

Now, you've got that flight and no passport. Here's the deal, it's going to cost a bit more but you'll get it in time. 

Simply make sure you have all the required documents needed to apply for the passport (Birth certificate, Social Security Card and Photo ID) and go here to see where to go to schedule an in person appointment.

Yes, it requires some of your time. However, the entire process will be expedited within 2 to 3 weeks. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE make sure you bring the verification of travel, like the flight confirmation print out. No phone itineraries, a hard copy must be provided. 

The passport application is not as complicated as it seems. If you have any issues drop a comment below and we can work through it together! 

Thanks for stopping by and getting those passports ready to Travel with May

All Inclusive... Is It Worth It?

So, you’ve decided you’re taking a vacation. You want sun, sand, and drinks in your hand. As you begin to research, you see these astronomical prices for just three nights. Ummm no way!

As you keep scrolling there are some more reasonable prices but they are labeled “All-Inclusive” and of course, here comes skepticism, with ‘that can’t be true.’ Guess what? It is! 

When researching for travel, there will be a constant option for All-Inclusive and, of course, you want to know if it’s worth it. Well, let’s discuss.

All-Inclusive can mean two things:

1-flight, hotel, food, and transportation to and from the airport

2-hotel, food, drinks and activities. 

So, it really depends on what you are looking for when traveling, in addition to the location, and time of year. 

I believe All-Inclusive is a great way to save money while ensuring you will get the most bang for your buck! It’s an opportunity to explore things you my not be able to without the All-Inclusive package like dance lessons, art classes or even free massages! Yes, you read that right, free massages!

When I travel, specifically to tropical locations, I prefer All-Inclusive. Its better for me to know I am receiving all of the food, drinks (top shelf of course), and amenities that I would like, prior to arrival. It also allows the flexibility of activities like, water skiing, parasailing, nature excursions and other cultural activities. There is no rush to participate in any specific activity as they are usually offered daily, unless weather conditions don’t permit. Did I mention the room service… can you say cherry on top! 

It’s also better, if it is a family vacation. Some hotels have water parks, baby sitting and daily activities to keep children occupied at the set price with no surprises. 

Think about, if you purchase a round trip flight for $650, book a hotel for $550, pay $95 for transportation to and from the airport. That’s $1200 so far and what about the children? You still need to eat and will have to purchase breakfast, lunch and diner AND of course you want to do the fun stuff, like swimming with dolphins or horseback riding on the beach. You have easily racked up over $2000 for 4 nights and 5 days. No, thank you! 

I will happily take the All-Inclusive rate of $1600 (not including the price for children) for the same service with everything included and, I always have the option to upgrade should I feel the need to. I can enjoy my vacation and relax without worrying about over spending or questioning if I’m really getting the best deal at the restaurant or activity. 

Perhaps, I believe the absolute best part about the All-Inclusive option is the trip insurance. It is peace of mind if there are any unexpected situations that may cause you to delay or even cancel the trip. It may be an additional fee but, trust me, it’s worth it. Besides, if it is used you can always book another vacation with the credits. That’s a definite WIN! 

I love to travel and I love to get the most for my money and this is amazing way to do both. It ensures a good time with a guarantee of your needs, wants and desires being met. 

Overall, in my opinion All-Inclusive packages are a great way to get quality service for a quality price. Any tropical destination is worth All-Inclusive. The best part is there are plenty of websites that do the hard work for you, they compare and allow you to choose what amenities and services you are looking for and then… BOOM… here is your vacation, on the screen and waiting to be booked. 

I hope this helped. Now, go, book that trip! So you can begin Traveling with May!

Passport... How do I get it?

I'm often asked about my travels. Where do I go? How do I decide, but most frequently is, where to begin?

There's a great big world out there and how are you supposed to know where to start your journey. It's simple, GET A PASSPORT! I'm sure some may be wondering why a passport is needed if they only want to stay local or they don't plan on flying because they prefer cruises.  FYI: you still need a passport for cruises depending on the destination(s).

Passport applications seem overwhelming and unnecessary but, they are an added layer of trip security when traveling and a one stop guarantee to any destination.

Let's make this as simple as possible:

Simply search "passport application" in your preferred search engine and click the link for "How to apply for a passport". The main page shows it's 5 simple steps!

1. Go to https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/passports/apply-renew-passport/how-to-apply.html
2. You'll see this image 

The step by step directions are right below:

How to Apply for a Passport

Need an overview of how to apply for a passport? Start here!

Getting a Passport

1. Fill out your form

2. Collect your supporting documents

3. Get your photo

4. Calculate your fees

5. Submit!

It's not a scary process... and for the first time applicants you have to appear  in person (I know, I know, sad face) but when you renew, it can be done online.

So, here is the run down for requirements for in person applications:
1. Fill out your form:

• Applying for the first time 
• Children under 16 applying or renewing 
• Applicants 16-17 
• Anyone not eligible for Form DS-82

You can complete the application online and print it out (that is what I did). Not too bad so far, right? 

2. Make sure you have all the ORIGINAL documents needed (call/visit mom/dad to let them know you need them)

• Fully-valid, undamaged U.S. passport (may be expired)
• U.S. birth certificate that meets the following requirements: 
• Issued by the city, county, or state of birth
• Lists your full name, date of birth, and place of birth
• Lists your parent(s)' full names
• Has the date filed with registrar's office (must be within one year of birth)
• Has the registrar's signature
• Has the seal of the issuing authority
• Consular Report of Birth Abroad or Certification of Birth
• Certificate of Naturalization 
• Certificate of Citizenship

If you cannot submit one of the above acceptable documents. or for more information please see Citizenship Evidence.

Next we are taking a trip to the United States Postal Service. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE make sure this is a USPS that processes passport applications before you get on the line. Simply do another search or go to https://www.usps.com/international/passports.htm. One great benefit to applying at a USPS is you can have your photo taken there too! Remember, no hats, smiles or sunglasses. Do you feel overwhelmed? I hope not, because once you hand in all your documents... you are finished.

Oh, one more thing, they keep the original birth certificate. Don't panic! They return it with the passport in the mail. Just make sure you have copies for the interim. 

Lastly, you must wait a few (4-6) weeks before that beautiful blue book arrives in the mail.

There, you did it! Now you can begin Traveling with May